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subject: How to "score points" in the first appointment? [print this page]

How to "score points" in the first appointment?

A successful first appointment you need to know how to listen and to express his.

Here are five tips to help you have a date next session with him.

1. Body language must be very confident

Cents shy little worried that the mood of most of the girls. But try applying the

tips below to overcome that feeling of embarrassment. First, you must frequently

make eye contact with him during the conversation (but do not stare). If you see my

voice is somewhat shaky, please stop talking for a moment and then breathe before you

go back to the story is unfinished. In addition, you should also pay attention to

actions beyond control such as typing fingers on the table, sat shaking legs.

2. 2. Do not talk too much.

Sometimes we often think they are the focus of this appointment that he forgot.

To control this and you should avoid talking too much to ask him questions and

insightful humor, in order to reveal his own character. There are many ways for

you to start conversations, such as: Do you have any brothers and sisters again?,

He has not adopted any pets? He likes to travel where? And do not forget to listen

to what he said.

3. Talk briefly and cheerful, optimistic

On the first appointment both wanted to know about your audience, so you should talk

about what really positive. For example, at the time that you are unemployed

(this is easy to understand during the economic crisis as today) and when he asked

about your job, you should remember just mention you're looking for jobs. Do not

complain about silly boss has fired you, then the attitude expressed anger when he

mentioned about how unfair when you pay. Otherwise you will completely lose his donation

in your inspiration and he will think you are a person not optimistic in life.

4. Prepared

Besides, you should "trim good" back body such as: hair removal, hair repaired. If you are

not interested in the current period, prior to the appointment should also buy a newspaper

and immediately update their information need, if you do not want him to think you are blind

information. However, avoid to mention the sensitive issues such as politics, religion ...

5. Not too long time of appointment

Even if you are a good sign from this appointment, you should suppress your feelings again.

This is the best way to make an enemy of hardships and want to talk to you more and more.

And remember to have little capital to back Giat following appointments of you.

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