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subject: How Can I Get Back My Girlfriend? -- We Have Broken Up! [print this page]

Sometimes relationships come to an abrupt end for one

reason or another. If that was a new relationship,

the shock to both you and your girlfriend can be

overwhelming. Sometimes you can find yourself in

denial that this really is the end of the affair !

Men find it very difficult, because of their pride to accept

the fact that their girlfriend has walked away from them.

They feel dejected, and lonely.

As a result, they dream often of her returning to them.

They constantly think about how they can get her back.

They can think of nothing else.

Is that you? No matter how badly you might be feeling at

the moment, there is a way forward. But, so that you can

achieve your aim of getting your girlfriend back, you

must first find a strategy.

Here are four tips that you will find will work very well as

long as you are diligent.

1) Do you still love her?

2) Do you genuinely desire her back?

3) Why?

4) Are your reasons valid?

When you have answered those questions, you will see

more clearly, what you need to do to get your ex-

girlfriend back.

If your heart is in the right place, you will find the strategy

will work wonderfully. If it's not, you will struggle!

Here are one or two points, you must remember -- do

not, under any circumstances ,show undue emotion in

her presence. You might feel like crying. You might feel

overly emotional, but you must avoid doing this .

Another thing to remember, is to never appear to be in

despair. Just be cool. If you act desperately, it will be

very counter-productive. It's even possible that she

would avoid you altogether. That would never do!

Another point to remember, is that even though you

might be the innocent party, you may not be the one that

broke off the relationship -- you still must have open

communication.

Even if your conversations are limited, do not close off

completely.

Finally, I strongly suggest that you carefully examine

what went wrong -- why did a seemingly sound

relationship fall apart.

Mentally review the situation. Remember what

happened when you fell out, try to picture the scene in

detail. If you do, you will undoubtedly see areas in your

own behaviour pattern, that show you were ignoring possibly

some of your girlfriend's needs.

When you discover that- you are well on the way to

resolving this relationship split, and you will have

matured into the bargain!

by: kenneth eden

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