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You hear it over and over again. Women love confident men. And most of the advice on how to get women out there always tells you that you need to be confident around women. Yet, just hearing that this is what you need to do does not really help you out if it does not actually show you HOW to be confident around women. And more importantly, it does not show you how to approach a woman with confidence.
Here are 3 tips that will help you approach women with confidence:
1. The first thing that you need to do is get rid of the idea that there is something to be insecure about when you are around women.
So, you may not make a whole lot of money or you may not be the best looking guy there is. Does that mean that you should feel insecure around women? Not at all. Do yourself a favor sometime that you are out in a crowded bar or nightclub and spot the guys who are average and broker than you are and still have women hanging around them. They are out there and pretty soon, you can be one of them. You have to get over that idea that there is a reason to be insecure about yourself around a woman first though.
2. You need to work your way up to the women that you really want to be able to approach.
I could care less about how politically incorrect this tip is, because it works. Every guy has a kind of threshold that he thinks he cannot go above in terms of approaching women. You need to remove that threshold to the point where you never see a woman as being above you our out of your league no matter how sexy she is, or how many guys want her. To do this, start to approach average looking women and then work your way up. It's a lot easier than just walking up to the next super attractive woman that you see and hoping that you get it right.
3. You also need to put yourself in her shoes for a minute.
No, I am not suggesting that you start cross dressing or anything like that. What I mean is, you need to realize that guys may have anxiety about approaching a woman, but lots of women have anxiety about being approached. Think about it,. If you were a really good looking woman and you had lots of guys walking up to you, at some point it might become a little unnerving. So, most of the women that you are going to approach will feel this way. Make her feel really comfortable with you walking up to her, and there will be nothing for you or her to feel insecure about.
