subject: Good Girls & Bad Boys [print this page] Do you often see bad boys getting the good girls? This seems to happen a lot these days and you really have to wonder why it does happen so often.
Everywhere we tend to see bad guys and nice girls, we see crazy boys and beautiful girls. In the mall we see our flaxen haired goddesses with America's Most Wanted.
Is it nature at work, is it us, what is going on with this picture?
It seems that men are becoming much more likely to get a great girl if he is a mean guy. What would this be the case? Many people may ponder on this often.
Interest. Yes, interest. Bad guys are interesting, and this may peak the interest of many of the girls they are really interested in. It seems women are very attracted to guys who may have a had a wild streak at one time and this causes women to want to be part of their exciting lives, or at least it seems so.
Bad Guys are a challenge, and women love to feel this challenge. It is very likely that many women just like to get involved with a guy that seems to be interested in having a good time more so than they are interested in them. It is fun to get a bad guy.
It also appears that bad guys are confident and self assured. They know what they are about and it does not matter to them in the least what others may think or feel. They are their own men and don't need others to prop them up. Some can become almost caricatures of themselves. These men dont have to be the best looking either. If you are a bad guy, you can get a hot girl, even if you are fat and baldling.
It seems that power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality. That equals sexy to many and thus the reason that men get the girls that are so attractive even if they are not.
I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. What I am saying is that there are lessons that you can learn. Think about what attracts women to these guys and you can understand the attraction a little better. This all boils down to women liking the excitement that a bad guy can seem to offer them.
When it comes to the dating arena, you will find that there is a lot of complicated things going on. Just because you think you have found the right one, dont be fooled and be very careful about falling for a bad guy. It may turn out bad.
