subject: Did You End The Relationship With Your Ex-want Them Back? [print this page] Did you end the relationship with your ex? Do you feel like you made a mistake when you did end the relationship with your ex? If this is the case then there is no need to worry as you can still fix things if you play things properly. If you do want to get back together with an ex, reconciliation is still a possibility as long as you attend to the emotions that your ex is feeling.
To be honest, at the moment you are in a better position than if the situation was reversed. After all you are in a crude position of power. It was you who ended the relationship so your ex may not have been expecting the relationship to have come to such a sudden end. This fact may allow for you to get back together with an ex. This is because your ex may still be willing to get back together since they were happy with the way things were going. However you may need to be careful here as your ex may be feeling bitter and hurtful about what had actually happened. After all they may have been really emotionally invested in you and then when you decided to end the relationship it left them feeling hurt and upset. Therefore it may be the case that you need to give them some time to work things out and get their life back on track. Remember to take their emotions into account also at all times as this will show your ex that you are not just concerned about yourself.
It is also a key point to look at your relationship in hindsight and work out what went wrong. This is an important thing for you do as it will show you what you did wrong and what you should not be doing if you do get back together with an ex. Not taking these factors into account will mean that you will probably get into a viscous circle and end up in the same position that you are in right now.
You will need to apologise in a meaningful manner to your ex in order for them to take you seriously when you are talking to them about getting back together. You need to acknowledge that what you did was wrong and that you are aware of this. Doing so will show your ex that you are serious. It is important however that you show your ex you are trustful also as they may not trust you as much as they did once before. The only way to get over this is to be honest and to give it some time.
