subject: The Fastest Way To Get Your Ex Back - Have No Contact With Him And Ignore His Calls And Emails [print this page] The Fastest Way To Get Your Ex Back - Have No Contact With Him And Ignore His Calls And Emails
This might surprise you, but answering a phone call or email from your ex boyfriend after a breakup, could keep you from ever getting him back. The fastest way to get him back is to ignore him and have no contact with him. All of this might sound completely backward to you, but there is a reason why it is true. Find out the fastest way to get your ex back.
When your ex boyfriend sends you an email or text message after a breakup, you will think it is a sign that he wants you back. You will rush yo answer him and tell him of your undying love for him. If he calls you, it will make you cry and beg him to love you again. But, you should not be having any contact with him at all. By answering his email or taking his phone calls, you are walking into his trap.
Your ex boyfriend is not making contact with you in an effort to get you back, he is trying to use you. This might be hard to take, but he only wants you as a safety net or backup girlfriend. His plan is to be able to have a good time and date other women, but still have you waiting for him. If things don't work out, he will be your boyfriend until he finds someone else.
You can't allow yourself to be treated that way. If you want to get your ex back, stop taking his phone calls and don't answer his email or text messages. Ignore him and have no contact with him. But, you can show him how foolish he is to let you get away. Visit a good salon and get a complete makeover. Get a new hair style, manicure and a tan. Then go shopping for new clothes to accent your new look.
Next get together with your friends and go out for some fun. Be sure to have some good looking guys in your group and stop by the place your ex hangs out. When he sees how great you look, he will wonder why he ever thought he needed anyone else. Seeing the guys in your group will make him wonder if one of them is your date. That will make him realize he might be losing you.
Now he will see why you have not been answering his phone calls and emails. Instead of wanting you as a safety net or backup girlfriend, he will see that he wants you as his girlfriend for good. This is why the fastest way to get your ex back is to have no contact with him and let him see what he is losing.
