subject: How To Give A Sensual Massage [print this page] It could be very difficult to give a massage that is usually shown on a television or like the one you just received in a five start hotel or a spa. The massage given in those places are done by professionals who would have had years of experience. Even though you can't beat them, you can definitely do give a massage which could substantially ease and relax the whole body of your partner. This article should get you prepared with a satisfactory soothing massage skills.
The first step would be setting up proper environment for the massage. Because massage is not something that could be done in any corner of some room. It is intended to soothe and relax all senses of body, and so should be the surroundings. Take off jewelries and watch from your hand, let your sleeves be folded till elbows. Its better you put on comfortable loose clothes. A soft melody playing in the background will add to the ambiance. Get your partner remove his/her jewelry and tie up the hair and lay down on the massage table or put their leg or hand up, whichever requires a massage.
And next comes the most important part of the massage. Strokes and pressure, which make up all the difference between a nerve to nerve relaxing massage and a tire up exercise. There are various strokes which can be performed with various pressures to bring about different levels of relaxation and stimulation. A common rule for all strokes is that they are directed towards the heart for a forward stroke and away for a returning stroke. The most common stroke that is very useful for applying oil to the body is the gliding stroke. It is done simply by keeping all fingers open and resting the palm and stroking with big circles or long straight lines.
They can either be feather-like touches or little pressurized stroke.
Another kind of stroke is kneading. This one is a quite firm stroke, done with substantial pressure to improve blood circulation and release muscle tension. The stroke must be performed similar to how dough is kneaded. Legs and arms can be pulled after applying little oil, this constitutes another form of stroke. Improved version of pulling is wringing.
In this case, pulling stroke is performed along with little circular motions in between with little pressure here and there, where blood circulation needs to be improved. Cupping is one funny stroke.
You have to close your palm in the shape of a cup and gently beat across the body, this would improve the blood flow.
A draining stroke is all about stretching the muscles and improving blood flow, the stroke begins with an application of pressure and by the end of the stroke the pressure should be reduced to zero.
Make sure to cover every part of the body equally well and repeat if needed. Once the massage is over, let your partner have a nap, and let him/her come back to you for more massages.
