subject: Diamond Engagement Rings - A Brief Buyer's Guide [print this page] Diamond engagement rings are the classic way to seal a betrothal. Perhaps the most popular way to show an impending marriage since a livestock filled dowry went out of fashion, these items can be downright intimidating to buy. Fortunately, a bit of forethought can make the process a great deal easier on the groom to be.
A BRIEF BUYER'S GUIDE
Finding the right engagement ring is likely one of the toughest things that a man will ever have to do, and it pays to have a bit of help in the process. There is a lot of "common wisdom" that floats around when making the big purchase and some of it is only so much hot air puffed out by the jewelry industry. Here are a few brief tips that can help you in finding the right ring.
First, ignore the old saying that a ring should cost approximately a month's salary (or three months' salary, for that matter). In a perfect situation, your fiance will never know exactly how much the ring will cost. You need to concentrate more on finding a diamond that she will like and less on the status that spending thousands of dollars will bring you at the jewelry store. Look for something that you can comfortably afford, and remember that there is no shame in purchasing a good ring that is on sale or on clearance.
Next, try to take a cue from your potential mate's own sense of style. While it is likely that she does not own anything even similar to an engagement ring, her taste in jewelry will give you a few great tips. If she prefers her jewelry understated, a giant stone will probably not be terribly appreciated. A woman that prefers her jewelry at bit more flashy, on the other hand, may well be expecting something that glitters a bit more. Try to observe what she wears before making a purchase, which you should be able to find something that matches her personality.
Finally, try to remember that when it comes to diamond engagement rings, presentation will be an important part of the process. Find not only a setting that shows off the stone well, but also one that your future wife will be proud to wear. Showing off the ring is going to be one of the major perks of becoming engaged, so try to find her something that she will enjoy showing her friends and family.
