subject: How to Make Him Commit – Is He a Happy Camper? [print this page] How to Make Him Commit Is He a Happy Camper?
Are you trying to get a great guy to make that ultimate commitment to you? Have you tried talking it out with him, but he insists he's not ready yet? Do you think it's well past the time to be thinking about it and it's time to get into action? Women are most often well ahead of the man when it comes to the progress of a relationship. Some even have a dress picked out before they meet him. Does that give you an indication of how rushed we can sometimes be?
If you've been dating for less than six months, you really need to look at why you're rushing this. He's right to want to wait. At this stage there's a good chance you're just enamored with the basic surface qualities he has and you've not really looked at the complete man. You might also be rushing because you want to get married, no matter what.
Don't.
If you're panicked by this, there's a chance you've been fostering a tense atmosphere between you and your man. Try to forget about the grand wedding you've planned in your head and just work on creating a great bond with him that is fun, easy and enjoyable.
You might even have already begun picking on him, blaming him for everything that goes wrong or yelling at him when he forgets something trivial. If you're always on his back, there's little chance he's going to want to get on board and make this a life long deal.
And have you let your own life suffer because you want to concentrate everything on him? Lead your own life and let him see you won't be a burden.
When life with you is fun and he respects the woman you are, a commitment will come soon enough.
