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Are you wondering why some women have such an easy time at romance and you can't get a relationship off the ground? Do you wish you knew what it really took to win a man over and have his love? Is it increasingly hard to remain optimistic and you're about ready to give up on love entirely? This article might be just in time to save you from giving up. Read on to really understand what men are thinking.
For the most part, women get on the same merry-go-round. They offer up quick and easy sex, enjoy the time they spend with the guy, fall for the smooth lines he tells her, expect him to call and don't understand when he doesn't. When they hook up with another guy, they try harder still, playing really nice in order to impress him.
Before you know it, she's so desperate to make a relationship work that she'll do virtually anything. And this is what guys run away from. If you want it too much, you're coming off as unattractive to the guy and you're also putting undesired pressure on him.
What he does want is to meet a woman who is attractive physically, so it's important to always to look your best. If you feel you're too plain looking, don't let this get you down. Guys aren't all interested in the flashy blond with her chest hanging out of her shirt. They want a real woman and what appeals to one man varies from what will attract another. Put a look together that will tell guys a bit about your personality and that will flatter your figure.
Then you want to spend the time it takes to build up a great emotional connection between you. This can only happen through a series of dates and there's not need to rush. You can't expect his love to grow after a few simple conversations that only have you telling each other a few basic facts.
Love needs time to grow and this is a fun time in a relationship so enjoy it instead of always trying to push it to become something.
Keep him working for it by playing a little hard to get. You don't want to drive him nuts with this, but you do want to show him that you're not going to be that easy. Don't always be available when he calls to ask you out. Let him sweat it out a bit.
Have fun throughout all this and don't let yourself get down by the slow pace of things. Men can take a long time to recognize the love they feel and you don't want to be there pushing him to love you before he's ready.
When he's having fun and you're not on his back, he'll fall in love with you.
