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Is your love life looking hopeless and you don't know what it takes to get a guy to want you for more than just sex? Have you been on the dating scene for a long time and you need to get into a real relationship soon? Are you dizzy from all the endless lines men feed you only to wind up alone the morning after? When a man wants sex that's one thing, but the man who wants the whole shebang, you have to approach in an entirely different manner.
Women seem to have gone from one extreme to another. Decades ago we were quiet and submissive tending to our household chores while men were the powerful breadwinners who went out into the world. Today women are out in the world as well, often standing toe to toe with men on the career front. And on the dating front, we come to be very comfortable with the notion of throwing our sexuality around quite easily.
When all you're looking for is fun and games, that's fine, but if you're looking to meet a man who'll want a more meaningful romance, you have to show him that you have a lot more than just sex to offer.
If there's one lesson we should take from the past, it's the notion of becoming friends with him instead of jumping straight into an all out heavily romantic relationship. By taking the friendly approach, you're giving him a chance to get to know you without the burden of thinking about the future of your relationship. He can just enjoy himself with you.
Slowly he'll learn about all the great qualities you have and this will turn into an emotional bond that will bring you closer together. Without this bond the relationship will stagnate, so encourage him to open up about himself, show him that you're impressed with him and let him know how important he's becoming to your life.
Avoid becoming impatient though. You don't want to have to push him into divulging his true feelings for you before they have an honest chance to evolve. Give him the space he needs and he'll fall in love with you.
