subject: Learn the Single Tip that Made Catching an Affair Much Easier! [print this page] Learn the Single Tip that Made Catching an Affair Much Easier!
Did you know that the most recent marital statistics state that 80% of all marriages are subject to at least one extramarital affair?
That's right...In order to fully understand exactly how huge a number this is, here's what I'd like you to do.
Think about you and 9 other couples you know...That gives you 10 total couples. Now, out of those I want you to list, in order of least likely to most likely, which couples you think will be subject to an affair...So #1 would be the least likely to ever have an affair (either partner), and #10 is the most likely.
After you've made your list (either in your head, or on paper), go ahead and draw in a line after the #2 spot. See that? Statistically speaking, those are the only 2 relationships out of the 10 you listed that won't have either partner getting involved with another person.
Pretty mind blowing, isn't it?
Now you're probably asking yourself "Where does that leave me?". The answer is probably somewhere between a rock and a hard place!
But really, there is no "good" way to deal with an affair. If your partner is cheating on you then you're going to be heading for what will likely end up being one of the worst times in your life no matter which way you spin it.
However, having gone through this before, I would like to let you know about one thing that you should definitely try:
Basically, the thing is that you can go through this affair one of two ways:
There's the painful way which involves you being in denial about your partner's faithfulness meanwhile they continue going behind your back, you take forever to find them out, their affair goes on longer, you end up hurt more...Not a good deal at all.
And then there's the slightly less painful way. Now, this way still hurts (to tell you the truth), but it's a heck of a lot better than the alternative. What you'll do here is you're basically going to just assume that your partner is cheating on you. The reason for this is twofold.
First, as I've already proven, chances are that if you suspect your partner is unfaithful, then they are.
Two, this way is much less painful for you because you don't have to spend all that time in denial. You're just skipping straight to when you get to catch your partner, or in other words the much less painful part.
Now, I'm sorry, but I have some bad news (don't shoot the messenger!)...It takes more than mind set to catch an affair. It takes a bit of cunning, and it takes a bit of know-how. Suspicion does nothing, you have to have proof before you even THINK about confrontation. Otherwise you're throwing yourself into an emotional argument completely unprepared.
You never know what you're partner will say to you...Even though it's apparent to you NOW that you're being cheated on, in an emotional frenzy you could be convinced otherwise. Why roll the dice when you could know for sure?
Now, I'm sure that you have some questions, and that's ok! I didn't intend for this article to be a complete guide to affair catching! But I'd like to help you out, so here's what you might try:
