subject: Senior Dating Rebound Relationships, do they work? [print this page] Senior Dating Rebound Relationships, do they work?
As an older and senior man who has had his fair share of senior relationships, both good and bad I have really got to disagree with the common held thought that rebound relationships don't work. To me life and relationships is and are different for everyone, fact. People say that you shouldn't run into another relationship after just finishing one, why? At the end of the day every relationship is different, and senior dating senior is simply about 2 grown ups who don't require the approval of others!
Just what is a rebound relationship anyway? Well the common held believe is that it all seems to be based on time. For most people if you say that a friend is dating less than six months after the end of a long-term relationship there's an audible sucking in of breath and a shaking of the head. This whole idea of about 6 months really seems to be a general view. But is it based on hard facts, or has it more to do with people morally judging others. What it boils down to is about what our peers think, and no one outside any relationship has the right to judge.
Everyone of us and every relationship is different, and good things always seem to happen when we least expect it. We really have no idea what is around the corner, but if we don't walk around the corner well then nothing is going to happen, is it?
A long term relationship has just ended for you, your older, wiser and wonder what people will think about you dating again, for a change put you' first. Next ask yourself an honest question, what have I really got to lose by getting into this senior dating lark, the answer? - nothing! Lets say you chat to friends, check out the web and then decided to join an online senior dating agency, one set up just for senior dating people like us.
After adding your profile and pictures you have a look around and find loads of people your age to chat to. Before you know it your chatting away to different people, and after a while it becomes obvious that you are getting on really well with another member, next step you know is to meet up. In your mind do you think this is all too soon, or do you think what have I got to loose? The thing is that 3 things can happen if you do meet up, you find that you don't really gels, it happens. Next you become friends, but no real spark, hey great, after all who in this world has too many friends? Lastly you just click and really enjoy each others company.
My point is that you really have nothing to loose and nature it's self will tell you whether you are ready. Being senior and single after a long-term relationship is often a tough time, but it doesn't have to be. If you join senior dating agencies open minded and totally free from any preconceived ideas or goals, then you can achieve so much from being a member, at the very least friends, and if your really lucky your going to find that special person
