subject: What's the Best Way to Get Your Ex Back? Make Them Feel your Absence! [print this page] What's the Best Way to Get Your Ex Back? Make Them Feel your Absence!
Are missing your ex like crazy and is thinking of the best way to get your ex back? Do you feel like these feelings are too much to bear and hope that your ex will come back to you? When a relationship ends, it's a typical reaction to feel angry, hurt and depressed. Why wouldn't you be? Everything was perfect one moment and devastatingly over the next.
Is your first thought call your ex and keep calling and hopefully they'll return your calls? Then you're on your way to more rejection, because constant contact and pleas won't make your ex desire you again. In fact, here are 3 dialogues you should never say:
"Pleeaaassse, come back to me! I'll do anything you want"
"Hi it's me again. Why haven't you returned my calls?" (all 100 of them!)
"Why haven't you called me back?"
Yes, you miss your ex and yes you want them back. But unfortunately the constant contact technique won't work. Heartbroken, meet the No Contact Rule. This rule is difficult especially if all you want to do is talk to your ex, but this can be your friend. Why? Because the best way to get your ex back is to make them miss you.
Sometimes absence really does make the heart grow fonder, so make yourself scarce and disappear. If they don't see you or hear from you all the time, then they'll begin to miss you and start to wonder about you.
Get active and don't make your ex think that your world will crumble without them. Be happy and learn to smile and laugh again. You need to clear your head from depressing thoughts and keep yourself busy so you wouldn't crave your ex's attention.
The best way to get your ex back is to make them realize what life is like without you. If they see you being your confident self once more, they'll remember the you that they once loved. So do your best not to be an emotional mess and keep your distance for a while.
