subject: If You Are Looking For A Way To Get Your Ex Back After A Breakup - This Will Bring Him Back Running [print this page] If You Are Looking For A Way To Get Your Ex Back After A Breakup - This Will Bring Him Back Running
After a breakup you might have the urge to tell everyone you meet what happened and ask their advice. This will not do you any good because you will keep reliving the hurt and it can make people avoid you. You can make people very uncomfortable, especially if they are mutual friends of you and your ex. Airing your problems all over the place will have another consequence. Your mutual friends will be apt to tell your ex boyfriend how you are acting and he will resent you telling your private matters to others. He will also lose respect for you and be glad he broke up with you.
You will get much more support from mutual friends and respect from your man, if you keep your cool and act as if you are accepting the breakup and moving on. Act excited about things that you are doing and do not mention your ex boyfriend. If they inquire about who you are dating, act as if you did not hear them and change the subject. You do not want to lie and say you are dating someone and you do not want to say you are not. Leave them guessing and word will get back to your ex and he will be guessing too.
This is the best way to use mutual friends to help you get your ex back. Instead of asking them to talk to him and make him resentful, feed them bits of information that you know will get back to him. Tell them about night classes you are taking to improve your job skills. Let them know in detail about the great restaurant you were at the other night. When they ask who you went with, simply tell them you went with a friend. The more information they feed your ex boyfriend about your activities, the more he will miss you.
The fact that you are not sitting at home waiting for him to call will be a blow to his ego. Your ex will also start remembering the good times you had together and yearn to have them back. He will feel a strong desire to contact you and see if he can get you back. When he calls, do not answer, but let him leave a message. After a few days call him back and be cheerful, but tell him you are in a rush. This will make him even more desperate and he will do what men always do when they think they have lost something. He will come running after you, night and day until he has you back
