subject: Value Of Life [print this page] For each person, there is something that makes him appreciate this life, makes it more interesting. Ask what you will hear many different answers: family, friendship, work, music, creativity, faith, health, computer games, etc. These responses are natural and often banal, but they do not satisfy the question: What makes you appreciate this life? Not so-called abstract life value, but interest and enjoyment of their life .As the meaning of life is filled with family, friends and work? Is it enough to be happy just to have them?We are able to reflect on what has, and does, give life value.
The recent suicide case of a 22-year-old Alviss Kong as a result of rejection by his ex-girlfriend shocked the entire nation. The incident received much attention from the media. Some of my friends criticised him for being very irresponsible as he left nothing but a remarkable and long-lasting pain to his family members. Strange enough, in today's world, they are people who stand on Tiffany Jewelry his side in a so-called 'Fans' webpage recently created. Nevertheless, he was generally dubbed selfish and of course, stupid for ending his life just because of BGR complications. I've also learnt that committing suicide is sinful in the religious point of view.
While many commented him for being negligent to the feelings of his parents, I have another opinion. He had indeed, reminded his sister to take good care of his parents before he killed himself. One can only feel his own life value when he is needed by others.This shows that he was aware of the presence of his parents and the importance of ensuring their welfares. Well, maybe he did not ponder more seriously on the consequences of his act to those who love him when he was so blindly in love. We are taught since young that parental love is more than any form of love exists among humans. Why couldn't a 22-year-old guy appreciate this, that he would die for a girl he randomly came across in his life?This contradiction embodied uncertain life value idea and excising state.Life they have in them, yet life that is not life.
In face of a tragedy like this, who is there to say that the bond of blood is superior over the affection sprout from the bottom of the heart? I cannot agree more that the relationship in blood is much better appreciated by parents as they sweat and bleed for years to raise a child, showering his/her with love and only wish that their child stay happy and healthy. If life is a quilt, then love should be a thread.What would the public then say about an old wife ending her life to accompany her life partner to the grave? A touching love story, a pair of butterfly lovers, maybe. Is this not done out of love as well? Setting family responsibility aside, the difference lies in 'marriage', and 'age' perhaps. Family responsibility only comes after a bond called 'marriage' between couples.
About responsibility to oneself, it is evident that he did not take care of himself, did not love himself more than his ex-girlfriend. Maybe he wanted to prove the extend of his love for her. Who knows? Well, only he knew the real reasons of attempting this irreversible resort. Anyway, there isn't much to say about Kong's responsibility to himself because he had practically escaped from all troubles in the world and is bound to no more responsibility. He cannot even make up for the pain he had inflicted on his parents' hearts.
Life is endless and tackling key problems will be continuous.In fact, I can't help but wonder what were the values of life to Alviss, what was deemed the most important in his life. I've learnt from past experiences that torture is not Tiffany Jewelry sale depend on the types of hurt I felt, but rather the duration that I had to endure. With every collision, you lose some life.
Let's turn it into reality with our deeds. Let's not be a man full of promises but without any deeds, like Lusting, one of the characters by Dougeshefol.Let's not hesitate. Only lament and vexation does not mean consideration and exploration. Only lament and vexation does not mean advancing and does not mean mature at all.Life is because of the many beautiful experience before, only experienced only become more mature, and maturity is the most beautiful Life find its wealth by the claims of the world, and its worth by the claims of love.
If your true values of life are in real harmony with your innermost divine being, your soul and heart, then of course you will be more happy than others, more successful than others and far more healthy - inner and outer health - than others. True spiritual values practiced in full harmony with God and hence with your own innermost spiritual being always result in excellent well being and happiness in all situations of your eternal life.
I thank the Lord that He has been able to give me the strength and the encouragement to help my friend along this scary journey. And I thank the Lord for many more days with my family, if he so desires!!!
