subject: Long Term Relationship Break Up Advice For Men [print this page] The issue of breaking up with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend can be very heartbreaking and emotional. It is very easy to slide into the thought of getting back together with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend, even if you know that it would not be the wisest decision. Still, if you really like to get back together with your ex or want them to think that you do, there are some things you can try. Below is the long term relationship break up advice for men to follow.
1. Be aloof. Don't go after your ex immediately after the break up. Give him or her some time to think things over, you want them to want you back so you must play hard to get. Let them come to you.
2. Stay in contact. This way you can still be involved in your ex's life. If you are comfortable with the idea, spend time with them.
3. Look amazing. Use this time to do some changes, start exercising, change your hairstyle, get in shape, and do everything to make yourself look fresh and attractive. Your ex will be the first one to look at you whenever you come around him or her.
4. Be your best. Get involved with events or organizations that matter to you. Work hard if you have a job, study hard if you are in school. Be your best and your ex will discover that you are still the best person for him or her.
5. Don't change who you are. Your former relationship did not end just because you did something wrong. You do not need to become a totally different person; just accept your defects and try to make the best of them. Remember that your ex fell in love with you for who you were before and he or she can love you again if you do not change yourself.
