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When it comes to avoiding divorce after cheating, there is one solution that promises more success than any others. You're just going to have to keep reading to find out what that one method is and how you can make it work in your favor fast.
Cheating does a number on even the strongest of marriages. At least the marriages that seem to be the strongest. In all honesty strong marriages don't often find cheating to be a big problem to beat. But not all marriages that seem strong or "perfect" in the eyes of others are really all that strong or perfect to begin with. In fact, many of them have more than a few problems of their own to contend with if cheating is going on.
But, what's the solution for cheating that will help you avoid divorce court after you've been caught cheating?
It's really a simple solution. So simple in fact that most people in your situation overlook its importance. It's simply this: you offer a sincere and heartfelt apology to the person you've cheated on.
Can avoiding divorce after cheating REALLY be that easy?
Well, that depends on who you ask. To give a heartfelt and sincere apology is not all that easy. It forces you to look within yourself and find a few unflattering facts about yourself. Most people do not find this easy at all.
Now there are some who will attempt a half-hearted apology that offers little real substance. This is a complete and total waste of time and will really do more harm for your goal of avoiding divorce after cheating than good.
But there are a few things that must be included in the apology you provide.
1) Sincerity. This is not an option. If you are not sincere, don't even bother trying.
2) Reasons. You must be able to state a specific reason for the apology. Cheating alone is generally not enough. You need to look deeper and apologize for all the ways you've hurt your spouse leading up to and including the cheating. Be specific but don't offer details that aren't asked for.
3) Desired result. Tell your spouse what it is that you would like to see happen as a result of your apology and how hard you are willing to work to make that happen.
4) Plans. Share with your spouse the plans you have for making it up to him or her. This will set the tone for the responsiveness of your spouse and can make all the difference in the world for your chances of avoiding divorce after cheating on your spouse.
