subject: How Do I Save My Marriage After My Husband Cheated? [print this page] How Do I Save My Marriage After My Husband Cheated?
I've stood by my man through good times and bad but how do I save my marriage after my husband cheated on me? This seems to be a little more than I can handle.
This is a rather common question to address. It's HARD to know that the man you love isn't quite the man you thought he would be. Your man of steel may have come across his kryptonite but that doesn't mean it has to be kryptonite for your marriage.
Keep reading to learn a few new moves you can make to save your marriage after your husband cheats and to make sure you don't go down this same path again in the future.
The first thing you have to do if you want to save your marriage from the other woman is convince your husband to give your marriage another chance. Depending on how deep things have gotten with the other woman that could prove to be a challenge. The thing is, you have a thing or two working against you. Keep reading to learn how to make them work in your favor.
Overcoming Obstacles
Familiarity is the biggest obstacle you have to overcome when it comes to saving your marriage from the clutches of another woman. Your husband is familiar with you while the other woman is still new and exciting: mysterious.
To combat this you're going to have to let your husband see a side of you he's never seen before. Give him something new to discover about you that will intrigue him and leaving him wanting to learn more about you.
Familiarity is a problem for your marriage in another way. As you've become more familiar with your husband you've stopped laughing at his jokes, hanging on his every word, and stroking his ego the way you did when you were dating and trying to win his affections.
Guess what? You're going to have to try now if you want to get him back from the other woman and keep trying for as long as you are married.
You have a couple of things working in your favor as well that are sure to turn your questions about "how do I save my marriage after my husband cheated?" into "how do I keep my marriage going strong now that we're back together?"
Familiarity, you see, is a two-edged sword. You are still familiar with the things that turn your husband on, make him happy, get him excited, and turn him into one ooey gooey pile of mush. Use them shamelessly!
