subject: How Do I Repair My Broken Relationship This Time! [print this page] How Do I Repair My Broken Relationship This Time!
Lois and Antoine are at it again; but this time, it's really over. It's been an "on again, off again" roller coaster relationship that has been stretched too thin. He finally waved the white flag. What's the problem this time? "Everything," he said.
To repair a broken relationship is a two way street. Both parties must be willing participants to make it work. It's interesting to delve into the mindset of men in a break up. Why? It's because we hardly hear an unbiased side of their story. Let Antoine walk us through his.
"She doesn't listen to me!" Give your partner a chance to speak. Don't just hear, but listen to what he says. You are both equals in this relationship so show respect for his opinions, even if you don't agree with it. Sometimes, women listen more to their girlfriends than their man.
"I'm not attracted to her any more." Just because you're spoken for means you'll let yourself go. Take care of yourself, your mind, your health and the way you look. To repair a broken relationship may involve some adjustments on your part. Some men get turned off by weight gain, nasty eating habits, poor social graces and many other stuff. If you know what the problem is, do something about it!
"I don't have my alone time." Everybody needs their personal space and your partner is no different. Give him time to be by himself, with other friends and his family. Being together 24/7 can be a bit of a drag. Being apart will leave some room for mystery and give you both a chance to miss each other.
"Everybody knows everything!" Don't tell friends and family every single detail about your relationship, especially your fights. Doing so might actually create a negative impression on your partner and that's not fair to him. Nobody wants to be put in a bad light.
It may not be too late after all. With better communication and compromise, this couple might be able to repair a broken relationship back to good health
I know that it's never an easy task when it comes to getting your ex back by setting yourself small goals and getting a plan it is possible. Win your Ex back with a plan but don't rush it!
