subject: How To Get a Guy [print this page] How To Get a Guy How To Get a Guy
The secret to how to get a guy is: YOU. The fact of the matter is that you can have whatever and whoever you want. This includes hot guys! You see, guys are seriously not very complicated. Most of the time, they say what they mean and mean what they say. If he says he's into you, believe him. Likewise, if he passes up a date; he's probably doing you a favor.
Once you've had your eye on a guy, the first thing you want to do is find out what he's into. Figure out what kind of sports he's into as well as his hobbies and music preferences. The key is to figure out what you both have in common. Once you know these things, it will be easy to start conversation as well as plan a night out. If you find that you don't have too much in common, you could always try something new together. However, don't force the connection. Guys can tell when you aren't being genuine.
Now that you know a little about him, it's time to be confident. Guys love confident women. Although calling him is good, try to find a way to run into him or somehow make his acquaintance by hanging out with common friends if possible. If you still need to be introduced, find a friend that would fit the job; but make sure they know that you only need to be introduced and not hooked up'.
After the meet and greet, it's time to get his number. Ladies, if you prefer to have a glass or wine/shot before you go in for the kill, now is the time to do so. (Before the meet and greet that is). But be sure not to get drunk because it might send the wrong impression. Since you have his digits, now you can relax for a few. When you feel like calling him, make sure it's at an appropriate time. You can't call a person who has a job during the mid-day. Try calling after 7, but before 10. I know that's only a 3 hour loop hole, but if you want to know how to get a guy; you have to at least call him when he's in the best mood. If he's had a hard day at work, this will give him plenty of time to cool down and relax. After the initial phone call you can ask when will be the best time to call. Also, don't wait too long before calling. Waiting a day or two is fine, but mid-week is ridiculous.
Once on the phone, be cool and relaxed. Try not to start serious conversationsit's too early! The purpose of the initial phone call is to talk about first impressions, what you do for fun, and setting a date to hang out. Of course, your call should be moderate unless he keeps pulling you into conversation. The idea is to tell him a lot without telling him too much. Remember that you need something to talk about during the date!
