subject: Tantra For Couples - Orgasms For Hours [print this page] The art of tantric sex is derived from the Hindu religion and has been practiced for centuries in India. There are ancient drawings and statues depicting the art of tantric sex. In fact, the work tantra means to stretch or extend. By practicing the tantra for couples, you can not only extend the length of your lovemaking sessions, but also can extend the sense of pleasure and intimacy beyond the sex act itself. Tantra for couples is about bringing yourself close to your lover in a way that is not possible with conventional sex. It creates a new sense of well-being also that transcends the bedroom.
Tantra for couples begins in a face to face position with both members of the couple sitting in a lotus position. Part of tantra for couples involves gazing for several minutes to several hours into the eyes of your lover. This eye contact creates a sense of trust and closeness that is a great way to begin to come together. Another aspect of the tantra just involves being present in the moment and taking the time to appreciate the sights and sounds and smells around you. Delight in the feel of your lover as well as her scent. Listen to the sound of her breathing and match yours to hers.
From the lotus position come together and join all your chakras from your forehead down to your genitals. The female may sit upon the male's lap for this portion of the tantra for couples. Don't begin any movements. Rather, just keep gazing into one another's eyes. You may want to draw your arms around your lover during this portion of the tantra for couples, and that is okay. In fact, you should have the feeling that you want to mingle with your lover in a way that is not physically possible. It may feel like you want to melt into your partner physically. If this is the case, then you are doing it right.
Many times during traditional sexual intercourse, the man finishes first and the woman feels dissatisfied. Even if she has reached an orgasm, she may want to cuddle and remain close. Tantra for couples teaches men not only how to refrain from orgasm by taking that feeling into his body to create an internal orgasm that can last for hours, but it also teaches him to appreciate closeness. In this way, the tantra for couples winds up being something that both partners can appreciate for extending their closeness as well as the physical act of love.
