subject: Need Break Up Advice? A Simple, But Powerful Technique to Deal With the Pain of Breaking Up [print this page] A dear friend of mine recently went through a bad break up with her ex boyfriend. He betrayed her in just about every way possible; lying, cheating, breaking promises, and ultimately, destroying all trust. I "counseled" her at all hours day and night for weeks. I also shared with her a technique to help her deal with break up pain and depression. Below is the exact break up advice that I gave my friend to help her feel better fast, and now I'm going to share it with you... When you think about your ex, picture in your mind that you are NOW together with your true love. Be sure to always think in the present - not the future. This is very important! The key to manifesting any dream, desire, or goal in life is to believe that you have already achieved it. So when you get upset about the break up with your ex, STOP! Immediately begin to think - and say positive statements in the "here and now". For example: "I'm in a healthy, happy, and loving relationship with the perfect man (woman) for me." "I have real love with my true soulmate." "I'm at total peace and completely fulfilled in my life." "I'm in a beautiful relationship with my true love." "My relationship with my soulmate is loving, honest, and completely satisfying." You get the idea. Yes, it is hard to snap out of negative feelings and painful memories. Emotions are the hardest thing to deal with in relationships. And it is especially true when dealing with break up pain. The technique above takes time, but you will begin to notice that the "bad days" are fewer and further in between. I'm thrilled to report that my friend has since moved on and she has never been happier - or stronger - in her life than she is right now. But what if you want to get ex back after a break up happened? The beauty of the technique above is that it helps you gain control over negative emotions, as well as to help you become a stronger, happier, and more positive person. And what better "place" to be in when your are wanting to get back together with your ex - Best Wishes!
Need Break Up Advice? A Simple, But Powerful Technique to Deal With the Pain of Breaking Up