subject: Make a Guy Chase You – Too Plain? Listen Up [print this page] Make a Guy Chase You Too Plain? Listen Up
Do you think you'll never get a guy to chase after you because you're to plain looking? Have you been on the dating scene and men don't even look at you? Are you starting to believe that you're destined to live your life alone? Sure there are girls who get chased without even trying, but there are a few things you can do to get that cute guy to chase after you.
You do need to get your look together. If you're the plain Jane who goes out looking frumpy and disheveled, it might not be simply your plain features that are keeping guys away. Make an effort to have a wardrobe that flatters you and suits your personality. Then maybe look into changing your hairstyle you've fallen into the habit of wearing the same old tired ponytail every day.
Looking great should boost your confidence, but that won't help you any if you're just sitting at home. So go out there and show men what you have to offer. And this is where your personality has to shine. For one thing you don't want to come off looking desperate. Don't enter a club with your eyes eagerly scanning the place as though you were hunting for a meal.
Relax and have fun. Flirt lightly by simply flashing a smile at the men around you. Make subtle eye contact, but never hold it for very long. When a man sees a girl who is having fun and seems open to meeting new people, he feels more comfortable coming up to talk to her.
When he does, be interested, but play it cool. The more relaxed and laid back you are, the more he'll have to chase you.
