subject: A Quick Look Into A Lesbian Guide [print this page] Being a lesbian is not something that happens over night, and you don"t need a lesbian guide to know you are a lesbian. The process can be noticed in puberty, when the specific female hormones act. Then the girl might realize that she does not like boys, but she rater see other girls, she can discover she likes boys clothes or very feminine styles and she may find out, latter on that she has different sexual needs.
The first battle that goes on inside the world of lesbian women is the battle with her. Instead of simply accepting the facts as they are, the women enters a state of deny. During this time, she will attempt seeing men partners and convince herself that this is all in her head.
As being not a personality but a biological issue, the attraction towards the same sex has to do with a series of special neurons that sent impulses to specific glands for relishing hormones.
When male specific neurons are found in a female brain, the result is the attraction to other women. Since science has recently discovered this, here is also the answer into why therapy does not work.
When a woman begins to take notice that this is an eminent feeling which she will not shake off, she will start looking for answers, and questions to tell her why does she feel like she does. For most women, the answer is different, but it is clear the same. Lesbian women feel this because they are different and must accept it.
After putting things in order with her-self, lesbian women must reveal herself to her friends and family. If you find yourself in a conservatory family, that sees lesbianism as a bad sin, and you are 17, you could keep a low profile for a year or two, until you can go away for college. Then you can simply say "mom, dad I am a lesbian". At least look at the bright side, if they have a heart attack, there is nobody left to give you an argument.
Friends are the most likely to perfectly understand you. Y7our true friend will show just now, when you tell them who you are. It does not matter if they approve or not the relationship between same genders, what matters is if they are willing to accept you for who you are; because you are still the same person that they always knew.
As a lesbian, making new friends to understand you has never been easier. There are a lot of people just like you, sick and tired of remarks, and that only look for the company of a friend.
A lesbian guide that can help you understand better your situation and your life would be perfect found not in a book, but in another person.
