subject: The Number One Secret Of Feminine Magnetism Every Woman Needs To Master [print this page] The Number One Secret Of Feminine Magnetism Every Woman Needs To Master
It's often true that men don't always know what they want. Men when they first meet and date us don't know if they want a relationship (with you or anyone) until they feel something really right about being with you.
Hence, do NOT assume anything about a guy. Ask him (that's what my husband always says and he's right in saying so because it's very frustrating when you are being assumed of something you are not).
Assuming things is living in your head -and many of us do- and is very detrimental to the relationship. It causes men to withdraw and the relationship not progressing to the next level. So to think that he's not the right guy because a right guy won't do such and such two weeks into dating him -while discounting other rights things he does- is assuming too much and you're projecting your own fear and insecurity.
The reason guys don't feel safe with dating is because a lot of women put the cart before the horse. They get needy, clingy and demanding very fast (smothering the men's boundaries) not taking into account how the guys might feel about the whole thing. Sure we want what we want and we shouldn't settle, but there are ways to approach it -ways that are detrimental and ways that are conducive.
Being in the moment and create a memorable experience while being together and let the relationship go through a natural progression is way better than rushing to giving him the talk because you assume baseless things about him. Worse still you are throwing away an otherwise good/decent man whose only fault is he doesn't fit your agenda/assumption of what a right man should be/do.
He might or might not be the right man in the end, but it's hard to establish that when you don't take the chance or give him the benefit of the doubt.
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