subject: Secrets of Attraction - Tips to Tempt a Woman [print this page] Secrets of Attraction - Tips to Tempt a Woman
Women. You just cannot seem to understand them sometimes. You think that a woman wants to just meet a nice guy and since you are that nice guy, then you should have no problems at all attracting a woman. And just when you think you are on the one that she is going to feel tempted by, she goes out and she falls for the first jerk that comes along.
What are you going to do?
Do you have to change who you are and become a jerk to attract a woman?
Thankfully, you do NOT have to do this. What you DO have to change is how you behave around women. I know, you are thinking, but I am a nice guy, why should I change how I behave around women. Read on and you will find out.
Here are some tips to tempt a woman that you need to know about:
1. When you act like too nice of a guy, you come across as being a pushover. Now, you can challenge this and keep on playing the super nice guy role and wondering why you keep on losing out, OR, you can accept it for what it is and realize that being seen as a pushover does not create attraction with a woman. It's up to you. Choose wisely, though. It can make all of the difference.
2. Jerks win because they don't try to be something they are not. You have to be comfortable in your own skin and be confident about attracting women if you are going to tempt a woman. When you over do the whole nice guy thing and try a little too hard to make her like you, then you really are NOT being yourself, are you? A woman can see this and that is a turn off to her.
3. If you want to really tempt a woman, then you need to be able to use body language and not look like a fool. Body language is a subject that leaves a LOT of people puzzled, but there are simple little tips that can help you to win a woman over with your body language. For example, when you stand next to a woman, you want to keep your body posture OPEN and not closed off to her. This signals that you are friendly and will make her more likely to want to get near you.
