subject: I Always Choke Up in Front of Guys I Like! What Shall I Do? Here Is How You Can Deal With It [print this page] I Always Choke Up in Front of Guys I Like! What Shall I Do? Here Is How You Can Deal With It
Why is it that every time I get the opportunity to make a good impression on a cute guy - I mess it up by clamming up? This is the question some women have. They find that they get terribly nervous and afraid when it comes to facing the guys they like. Here are some ways to deal with this problem.
Build confidence in your self and your abilities
Unless you are oozing self confidence and you have belief in your abilities, you will never be able to stand your ground and hold your own out there! You better face reality and know that the sooner you get over your fears and insecurity, the better it is for you. Once you do that you have great chances of hooking up with the guy.
Practice in front of a mirror
Practice at home in front of a mirror. You could pretend that you are talking to the handsome hunk you have your eye on. While you begin to talk, take a look at your self in the mirror and notice how attractive you really are and how cute you would look while you spoke to him. This will make you more confident of yourself.
Have plenty of clever things to say
Have a lot of one liners, ice breakers and clever little things to say! Memorize them so that you won't be at a loss for words when you are face to face with the guy you like. Only thing make sure they don't sound rehearsed. Wait till he communicates with you and you will find it easy to respond.
Relax and tell yourself that you are one terrific lady
As long as you are sure of yourself and you learn to relax in male company, it will not be that easy to get over your fears. Begin by telling yourself that you don't have anything to lose. Make a list of all your assets, plus points, talents and accomplishments. By the time you finish you will start feeling more confident.
Respond naturally to their interest in you
If you are an attractive woman who knows how to highlight her assets so as to look stunning and beautiful, there is no way the guys are not going to be attracted and interested in you. All you have to do is respond to them in a natural manner. You will find it easy.
Love your self and your new look
If you pin point the reason as to why you get so nervous around the guys you like, it is a good idea to tackle that first. If you feel that you need to look more gorgeous, get a new look and stun the opposite sex. Soon you will begin to love yourself more and find it easy to interact and communicate with them.
Don't try too hard to come up with a wisecrack
One of the first things you would have to do is to relax in their company. Don't try too hard to come up with a wisecrack or something funny etc. You can learn to communicate with your body language and actions as eloquently!
