subject: Get Your Ex Back - The No Contact Rules Versus Great Communication Between You and Your Ex [print this page] Get Your Ex Back - The No Contact Rules Versus Great Communication Between You and Your Ex
This article is going to discuss how the no contact rule versus great communication with your ex compares. Some people feel that cutting off all contact with your ex is the perfect way to get your ex back however, some people feel that maintaining great communication with your ex is an even better way of getting your ex back.
- What are the no contact rules?
The no contact rule consists of cutting off all contact with your ex. While demonstrating this rule, you will not contact your ex or responding to any type of communication from your ex. The no contact rule provides time and space for all involved to deal with the situation as well as allow time for both people involved to decide if they want to reconcile the failed relationship.
- What does the no contact rules prove to my ex?
The no contact rule also allows your ex to understand that you are perfectly capable of going on with your life minus the begging and pleading while feeding the ego of your ex. Many people have found that the no contact rules have been very much beneficial in their quest of getting their exes back.
- Maintaining communication with your ex may not be the best way to go
Maintaining great communication with your ex is a wonderful thing, that is, if you both decide to remain friends but maintaining great communication with your ex can open you up to many disadvantages as well as emotional turmoil and pain.
- Why do people maintain great communication with their ex's?
I do not feel that anyone is strong enough to remain friends with their ex's while being forced to listen to how well their ex's are doing or what is new within their dating life. Let us face facts here, the primary reason people remain friends with their ex's is to maintain hope of getting their ex's back.
- Maintaining communication with your ex could backfire
It takes a very strong person to maintain great communication with their ex while still having hope of getting their ex back. Another way this great communication tactic could backfire is that you can place yourself in the category of 'friends" with our ex therefore demolishing any hopes of getting your ex back. Once you have passed into the "friend" zone is it quite hard to recover from this therefore, you must ask yourself when utilizing this tactic if you are willing to take that particular risk.
You must decide ultimately what is best for you and what you are trying to achieve. If you are trying to get your ex back, I would highly suggest the no contact rules as compared to maintaining communication with your ex. The no contact rules allows you to focus on yourself for a while while figuring out what you did wrong within the failed relationship. Maintaining communication with your ex is only opening yourself up to more hurt and pain and this is not going to be beneficial in your ploy of getting your ex back.
