subject: Find Signs Of An Affair - 5 Places You Need To Check Inside Your Own Home [print this page] The thought of my wife cheating on me with another man inside the sanctity of my own house is enough to almost make me wretch. Yet, your own home is one of the top places for an affair to take place!
Which is why it's extremely important for you to be able to identify any signs of an affair taking place within your home. They may be just under your nose, but you haven't looked in the right places or for the right things yet.
What I'd like to focus on in this article is one place in particular inside your home, where your spouse is most likely to leave signs of an extramarital relationship. That place is, of course, the bedroom.
Now, I'm sure that if you've looked for evidence anywhere, you've looked in the bedroom, but I'm willing to bet that there are a few key places that you didn't look.
And if you haven't already looked around your room in an attempt to find evidence of an affair, then you really really should, and these tips will help you get started.
Here are 5 places in your bedroom to look for signs of cheating:
#1. First, check for any out of place hair. I know that this can be painstaking, but check around for any hair that looks like it may not belong to you or your spouse. At the very least check the pillows, as they're the most likely place for anything to turn up.
#2. You should also be keeping tabs on when the sheets are changed or washed. Your spouse might think they're being cautious by washing the sheets after every liaison, but that will actually leave an equally large trail for you. This is simply because freshly washed sheets have a very distinct smell (laundry detergent smell).
#3. Do you have a vanity (A sink/cabinet type thing) in your bedroom? If so, be sure to scour the surrounding area for any signs of another person. Many times there may be hair that's fallen into the sink, or around the sink, that could tip you off to some funny business going on.
#4. Do you and your spouse have separate bedside tables? If so, make sure you go through your spouse's to ensure that he/she's not hiding anything from you. If you and your spouse use condoms for contraception and keep them by the bed, then make sure you count up how many there are, and keep track of when one goes missing.
#5. If you keep a waste basket in your bedroom, then this is another prime spot for hard evidence. If your spouse uses the waste basket to discard of sensitive materials (to their affair), then you may find that they change it frequently to prevent you from looking through it, so it's prudent to take note of every time the garbage is taken out by anyone but you. At least in your bedroom.
Well, there you go, 5 tips to help you catch your spouse cheating, but I'm willing to bet that you've still got a couple questions, so here's what I'm going to do:
