subject: Does Body Language Attract Women? [print this page] Does Body Language Attract Women? Does Body Language Attract Women?
Communication is the biggest "key" factor when it comes to attracting women.
Most of this communication does not even come from our mouths. Majority of our communication comes from body language. When trying to attract women, body language can make it or break it. We are constantly sending off "signals", even when we are not speaking. Women subconsciously pick up on these "signals" very quickly.
Here are 7 body language tips to help you attract women:
Movement- Do not let your nervousness show by being fidgety and jerky. By making very controlled movements, and walking slowly, your confidence will show. Never will you see a confident man with restless leg syndrome or twiddling his thumbs. If you are sure to control your movements, this will make you much more approachable.
Lean Back and Relax- If you happen to be in a sitting position, lay or lean back and relax! Relax your arms at your sides and get as comfortable as you can. Have you ever seen a man speaking to a woman while his arms are crossed? This makes him appear to be shy, and very closed off
Take up Space- Try and take up as much space as possible. Show people that you are the alpha and that you are the most laid back and fun person in the room. Lean back, put your feet up. This is almost sort of a territorial thing.
Posture- Your posture can say a lot about you. If you are walking with your hands in your pockets and your head down, this makes you look very unapproachable. Stick your chest out, put your shoulders back, and tilt your head up a bit. This is how any confident man walks. Women are attracted to confident men.
Be Open- Don't ever give the impression that you are closed off by crossing your arms and legs. Stand or sit with your palms slightly exposed with your arms at your sides. Place your legs at shoulder width apart or out in front of you, if you are sitting. This is especially important when trying to attract women.
Be calm and indifferent- You want to be sure to never show too much emotion at any given time, as it may come accross that you aren't in control of your life or situation.
Speed of Conversation- Be sure you do not speak too fast, if you do, slow it down. Women don't like to speak to a man who they cannot understand, or who may even embarrass them. Speaking slowly will help you to control what you say and prevent you from stuttering. You don't want to look nervous. Remember, women are attracted to a man with confidence.
As you can see, body language is very important. Whether you are trying to attract a woman, or interview for a new job, body language can be the reason it may or may not work out. Put these tips to use and you will definitely start seeing positive results.
