subject: Hints And Tips On How To Get Your Ex Back [print this page] Most of us after a break up will feel we cannot do without our ex; we cannot live without that person. Make sure you're not viewed in that way, by your ex in particular! Keep those feelings hidden. This is the first step; let your ex see you as a strong confident person who is doing just fine by themselves. To have a good chance of getting back with your ex, you have to come across as full of confidence and happy, regardless of the recent break up.
In most cases people tend to feel hurt so they try to make their ex boyfriend or girlfriend jealous, just to get back at them. Whatever you do, don't go down that route, that's the worst thing you could ever do. This will only make your ex feel you are callous and have no feelings for them. You do not want you ex to be pleased to see the back of you, the goal is to get your ex partner back! Seeing you as a strong and confident individual will inspire your ex to get back with you.
Always make sure you surround yourself with good friends and people with positive attitudes. Socialize as much as you can, but don't forget the main focus is to get your loved one back. You want your ex to see how appreciated you are by all around you. Your ex will view you completely differently when they see how others value your presence in their lives. When you are viewed in this way, your ex will begin to feel, this is a good person I simply cannot do without in my life. They will also be asking the question "how can I get my ex back?"
The temptation will always be there to contact your ex; believe me that's the worst thing you could do at this time. The reason I say this is because it's simply too soon, you both need some thinking time. Because of that, you should make it a point not to communicate with each other. You need to send a message out, that you're doing ok just by yourself, even though deep inside you may not be feeling that way.
At that point, you and your ex will have the time to re-evaluate the relationship, and possibly see where things went wrong. Keeping away from your ex for a while will allow them the time they need to reflect, and see how much they miss you. Remember as bad as you may be feeling, your ex could be feeling worse, no matter what may have been said.
