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Do you have your eye on a guy and you want to make him fall head over heels for you? Do you want to do it right this time, but you're not sure what you did wrong last time? Are you ready to let your old failed methods go, and try a new surefire strategy? Then make sure that you make the best of your fresh start, or you'll just keep falling into the same old losing trap.
Love is a lifetime proposition, so don't think you can skip the early stages and jump right into your desired conclusion. If you don't add all the ingredients, blend them properly, and set the oven to the right temperature, your cookies are going to end up in the garbage can. Don't skimp on the recipe for love.
Get into his head.
A hundred years ago, the way to a man's heart may have been through his stomach. But today the path to his heart starts in his mind. Of course, you need to use your feminine charms and tender touch to get his attention, but you are not on a mission to find love; you are on a mission to become his life partner. To do this, you have to let your kisses and eyes tell him the feelings you want to express, but let the words be about anything but love.
Plan dates that will give you a chance to get acquainted as people and friends. Go places together that will give you a shared history and stories you can talk about. Help him solve his problems at work and home, and support him in his endeavors.
Don't Try to Change Him.
Well, okay, maybe those purple and orange striped shirts will have to go, but he will probably appreciate a little bit of fashion help from a lady like you. Be sensitive to the fact that his life did not start on the day you met him. He is not modeling clay for you to twist and shape to your taste. He has friends and golf buddies and poker night.
Use those times to show him that you are still an independent lady too, and continue to have your own life and events. He wants a strong woman who is not always sitting around waiting for him. That makes you sexy to him, and it keeps you from moping and resenting him for having his own life too. It's early. In time, your events will begin to merge. Let it happen at a natural pace.
Don't Give Out the Candy Too Soon.
Cultivating love does require closeness and intimate times. But he doesn't want it to be all about the love for you, and you cannot let it become all about the sex for him. You must have a solid emotional and interpersonal foundation for physical love, or it will not grow into a complete and healthy relationship. For a man, sex does not lead to love. Be careful. If you take your time and do it right, all the pieces will come together. Before you put your heels over your head for him, you have to make him fall head over heels in love with you.
