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So, you're convinced that you've tried it all and you just can't get a guy? Do you tell yourself that all the good guys are taken? Have you decided that only those girls with perfect swimsuit bodies can get the kind of guys that you really want? Maybe you're just not using the right techniques! Try these 21st Century ways, and you too will get a guy that you can cherish forever.
Although guys are still cavemen in a lot of ways, they are really no longer interested in submissive women. Being a modern woman who wants to choose her own guy instead of waiting around to be "picked" is perfect for the 21st Century male in today's relationship jungle. Ohbut you still have to make him believe that he is the one choosing you.
Today's world is about equal partnerships, and not about dominant males dragging submissive females back to their cave by the hair. Cooking, cleaning, and child rearing aren't going to attract his attention to ignite a relationship, although they may well become important later on when he wants to find out if you are "wife" material. You still have to attract Og the old fashioned way beauty and booty.
No, don't give up the booty just yet, but let him know it's there. However, today's sophisticated caveman will be looking for more in his ideal mate. It's not all about the perfect Victoria's Secret looks. She has to have those added dimensions of confidence and intelligence in her appeal. Sexy attire, a warm smile, good posture, and even a firm two-handed hand shake or fearlessly laughing while patting his shoulder can send great signals of confidence. Intelligence is in the eye contact and the ability to speak in complete sentences. That will more than make up for a few extra cheeseburgers or size 10 pumps, and will definitely help you get a guy.
Another great help when you're going after your man is to learn to tune into and understand male psychology. You're a woman, so you really can read his mind. Your sixth sense will tell you when he's uncomfortable, or feeling down. You need to feel when it might be the right time to be silent and when to talk. Use you mind to guide you in your reactions rather than your emotions, because they might tell you to smack him upside the head and give him a good talking too about maturity. Now, that might be appropriate in later stages, but, hey, you're just getting to know each other now. Restraint must sometimes replace submissiveness.
Be aware also that few men are good at picking up the signals that you think must be obvious to them. He may not really be sure you like him until you're unzipping his trousers. So if you can pick up his signals of interest, then go ahead and tease, but don't please.
All women have the goodies that men want and need, so you have to set yourself apart from the crowd with your special aspects. Your confident personality, your intelligence, your compassion, your touch, and your fun sexy presence is all you need to get a guy.
