subject: How to Approach Women - Make Her Feel Like You Are the Only Guy For Her [print this page] How to Approach Women - Make Her Feel Like You Are the Only Guy For Her
If you have ever been out in a club or a bar, the you already know that there are a lot of guys out there trying to meet women. So, if you are going to be able to approach a woman and make her want you, then there has to be something there that makes her see that you are the only guy for her. Problem is for most guys, they don't know how to separate themselves from the rest of the pack. You don't have to be most guys.
Here are 3 tips on how you can approach a woman and make her see you as the only guy for her:
1. Right away, as you make the approach, make eye contact with her and hold it.
Most men shy away from this at some point, the real trick is in being able to make eye contact with her without it coming off as cold or creepy. You don't want to have her think that you are one of those guys that she needs to avoid. At the same time, you also don't want to have her see you make a submissive move like dropping your eyes to the floor the moment that she makes eye contact with you.
2. Start a conversation with her with an opener based on your surroundings.
When you open the conversation with a woman based on something to do with your surroundings, the club or bar that you are in, then it comes off like a natural approach and not like you are scouting her out for the pick up. I've said it many times and it will always be true. Women love to be approached by the "right" guy, but they hate the idea of being picked up. You do not want her to think that you are trying to be a pick up artist.
3. Grab her by the hand and bring her out to the dance floor.
Obviously, you don't want to grab her hand like a caveman dragging her back to the den, you want to be a little more smooth and gentle than that. Still, you want to take the initiative and lead her out to the dance floor. For one, the act of "leading" her automatically makes you assert the alpha male role, and also, dancing is one of the best ways to make a woman think about sleeping with you without coming right out and talking about it.
