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I want to share with you some wisdom that I receive from one of my readers. I will not give her name away but I think she deserves a lot of credit for what she has taught me. For this post, I will call her Carol.
Carol grew up in a very warm and loving house. In her early childhood, she was almost spoilt with receiving everything she wanted. Both from her parents and her relatives.
She went to high school to achieve great results and never had any problems with her education. However, Carol started to feel depressed in her teenage years. She felt that she had no personality. She did not make any decisions on her own. It was her family who made the decisions and she just went along with it.
This went on for many years and she realised that she developed an anxiety problem. She was always nervous, it was as if, her real self wanted to scream out and ask for help, but the ego in her head said she had to just go along with what her parents wanted for her.
On top of all this, Carol now started to suffer from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. She had to check items, prey for hours and constantly worried if she did not follow this actions, something bad will happen to her family or friends. It was so bad, that she sometimes could not go to sleep for many hours.
Finally, Carol developed a blushing reaction when she met new people. This was the worse of all, as she was suffering already from not finding her real self and blushing made her embarrassed in front of new people.
Carol is now 37 years old and she wrote me an email thanking me for the blog and material I display on the home page ofhow to stop blushing blog. She went on to tell me her recovery which took place in a matter of weeks.
Here is what she said." You see I always knew that I was not letting my real being shine. I wanted to be me, just be me, but everyone around me had different plans. I also knew they loved me, I think they love me too much, it is a kind of controlling love.
So, I read your material onblushing treatmentsand regardless of what the book was saying, I discovered something which was like finding gold for me. I finally knew that I could solve all of my problems. It was simple. I stopped worrying that I might do something wrong. I made my prayer to god and told him that I know let go off all my worries. I knew that I could not make anyone happy, if I wasn't happy. My decision in big capital letters was stop trying to make everyone happy.
That was it. I then started sleeping better and enjoying my life knowing that I did not have any job to make anyone happy. If they were not happy with what I did, I knew that this was there problem.
Life has started to be more joyful right now. I sleep better, I have given up smoking and I exercise which is something I wanted to do for a very long time.
Once again thanks for the nice blog and I will keep you posted as I go along my recovery."
Well, I don't think anyone can say this any better than the way Carol said it.
