subject: He Broke My Heart, How To Get Him Back [print this page] He Broke My Heart, How To Get Him Back He Broke My Heart, How To Get Him Back
So you're thinking he broke my heart' and now wondering how to get him back. Well it's not always easy but it is nearly always achievable with the right attitude and a great strategy.
Whether or not it is possible, how to get him back is very much dependent on your situation. You need to look at why he broke your heart. If it is because one or both of you cheated it will be a mountain to climb. If it's just a misunderstanding or lack of affection it will be a stroll up a small hill to get him back.
If you did cheat on him you can still get him back but you need to restore trust and this can take some time. He will be hurting right now and you will need to give it a lot of time. Firstly, get back together as friends, as a friend there is no dependence so he doesn't have to worry about your faithfulness as you are not his anyway. This will give you both time to adjust and still be there for each other. Once the dust has settled you can work on rekindling that flame.
If he cheated on you, you will need to forgive him and if you can't you will never be happy together. There are only two paths to walk with betrayal and that is forgive and forget, act as though you just met and decide to give him the benefit of the doubt. The other route is move on and just accept that you will never forget or trust him again and that he is a cad and a bounder and not worthy of your love.
Assuming there was no cheating involved then you need to work out what caused him to leave. What many people get wrong or don't realise is we stay together because of how someone makes us feel. We stay together because we make each other feel great and strong. As a unit you feel like you can take on any problem that life throws at you. So if he broke your heart it's most likely because you stopped making him feel good about himself. Did you start to take him for granted? Did you forget to remind him how much he means to you?
You need to give him time especially if he is angry at you. As above you need to make friends with him first before you can become his lover again. In order to find what you had before you need to start again from the beginning. Be nice when you first met him I would guess you were polite and courteous at all times. There isn't any reason why that respect for someone should change when you have been together for a while.
The biggest thing that couples forget is tact. When we first meet someone we are attracted to, we are nice to them and tactful all the times. If they make a slight mistake we don't correct them because it might hurt their feelings or make them feel awkward but once we have been together for a while we seem to do it all the time and then wonder why our relationship deteriorates. All you need to do now is work out a plan of action to make him feel great about himself and more importantly so he feels great around you. With a little help and advice you could be well on the way to answering the question how to get him back'?
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