subject: Tips To End A Bad Date [print this page] First dates can prove to be quite unpredictable in terms of a lasting relationship. It is also an important time to decide whether you want to organize more dates with your companion or not. Generally it becomes very difficult to end a date if it's not going well or the way you expected it to go.
It's not always flowery or pleasant where first dates are concerned. Not always does it happen that the date turns out to be exactly the same as you wanted them to. Compatibility check is very important and when your companion fails in the test then its time to put the date to an end in a very polite way.
For such a situation here are some tips that will help you end the date in a civil manner without being harsh-
Don't beat around the bush. Be straightforward. Anyways you won't be seeing your date again. Its good being blunt sometimes and not being nice. Don't give mixed signals and confuse them or give them wrong ideas. Let them know you are not interested.
Do not escape the situation. Make sure you don't run away from the back door or pop out. Amicable ending to the date is always much acceptable than running away. Do it only if you are deeply uncomfortable and do not find any other way out of the situation.
Give an explanation. In the least your date deserves an explanation about why things won't work out. Be thankful for a nice date but tell them that the chemistry does not exist. Let them know how important compatibility is in long lasting relationships. If they ask for a second chance you can be firm and say no if you don't want any future with them.
Offer being friends only if you are sure. Be friends with your date only if you are sure it can happen. Avoid contacts if you don't want to keep up with them and be clear about it.
Men often mistake the gestures. Where guys are concerned they are not that good to read signals. Keep your cool while, telling them that you are not interested. Keeping them noticed in advance will do wonders.
Honesty should prevail. Speaking up and telling the other person about what you want is the way to go! This will also create a good rapport for you in the long run.
Don't fake illness. Lying about not feeling well and ending the date suddenly is not graceful. It might also sound rude for your companion. The other person is human and has feelings. So be sober.
Texts message a friend to call you up for emergency. This will solve both the issues. You will be saved early from a miserable date as well as you wont have to be rude to the other person. Resort to such a kind of route if you don't have the nerve to speak the truth.
