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Are you dying to get your ex back and just want to get back together with your ex boyfriend or ex husband? There is a ton of information out there that promises to help you to get him back but how much of it is real practical advice? Here is some food for thought and some real tips that can help you to get your ex back and have him wanting you more than ever before.
And what kind of information could be so powerful? What can you do that you haven't already done? You've tried talking to him and convincing him and even waiting him out in hope that he will change his mind and come back to you. Well, did you know that there are women that are experts in not just changing a man's mind but in making a man do just about whatever they want? There are women out there that are professionals that you might be able to learn a little something from.
What You Can Learn From Strippers Now, before you go and jump to any conclusions and think that you're going to have to dress like a tramp to get your ex back, just hold on a minute. Strippers are effective in getting a man to do what they want, which is typically hand over the money, not just by how they look. Strippers are professionals at seducing and manipulating men by how they make a man feel.
A professional stripper knows what to say and do to make a man feel handsome, intelligent and desirable. A stripper knows what to say and how to say it to almost train a man to desire her in a way that he wishes to be around her no matter how much money it costs. Do you think that this might be how you wish your ex to look at you?
Seduction is the Game As you can see, seduction is about more than what you look like and what you wear. It is about how you make a man feel. Seduction is about building attraction and desire in your manhis desire to feel a certain way and want to be around you so he can experience those feelings more and more.
While the way you look is important because men are typically drawn visually to woman initially, it is only the first step in seducing your man back to you. It is only the bait that will allow you to hook him mentally and make him addicted to you and your attention. Are you attracting him visually while holding in reserve the goods to make your boyfriend become addicted to how you make him feel? How do you think you are making him feel by wanting to talk about the problems in your relationship or rehashing what went wrong in your relationship? I think you will see that these methods and tactics will never work to get your ex back.
Remove His Heart The crowning blow and a highly effective way of getting your ex boyfriend to chase you is to almost literally remove his heart break his heart just a little bit by pulling away and making yourself just a little unavailable once you feel that he is digging you again and wanting to spend time with you. The effect is quite powerful and you will find that if you can force yourself to pull back a little bit the entire game changes and the pursuer (you) becomes the pursued.
While you might be tempted to push the issue and get him to agree that you are actually back together again, resist that temptation and make him pursue you. Make yourself a little bit unavailable and make your ex be the one to beg you to get back together. Make him be the one to start calling you multiple times a day.
All of this might seem unbelievable from where you are standing right now. You might still be feeling a lot of pain from your breakup but it is truly possible to get him back and restore your relationship. Get back to living your life with love instead of pain and start down the road that leads him back into your loving arms once again.
