subject: Learn To Wait, Learn To Go Away [print this page] She fell in love with him 10 years agoShe fell in love with him 10 years ago. In those 10 years, his name was connected with one beauty by one. However, she stands silently and firmly behind him all the time; in those 10 years, she helped him with finance, stocks. The media estimated that the income she earned for him might add up to be over 400,000,000 Hong Kong dollars; in those 10 years, she was never admitted by the public to be a girlfriend but a manager of his company. The achievements she made belonged to him and his family.
Her name is Yu Wenfeng. But what is known to more people is his name: Zhou Xingchi.
Recently, the end of their 10-year-old love story becomes the biggest and hottest topic. This time, it was she who went away. Some reporter said, workers in magazine took the photo that she and her new boyfriend. They were together closely hand in hand. Zhou never gave her a promise. Yu found this love hopeless and broke their relationship half a year ago.
There is another story about wait and go away. It is said that many years ago, the famous actress Gong Li waited for Zhang Yimou bitterly for a long time. When Gong got no promise that he would give her a future, she turned away and left the one who can make many achievements together with.
Wait and go away, it is a test for women in their life, so it is with men. But men tend to be more offensive and women are born defensive. That makes female more likely to wait. There is nothing wrong with waiting. However, a sensible and mature woman will wait patiently and go away at a proper time.
When they are young, they will lose patience of waiting easily. She would give up a love just because his late for an appointment or her feeling that he doesnt pay enough attention on her. They expect perfect love story and their decisions are often made quickly and without enough thinking.
When they get older, women tend to develop inertia of waiting. They turn waiting to a habit. Wait all the time and never want to change because they are afraid to. Until all the chances are missed, she completely loses the hope and ability to start with a new life. These are the tragedies of lots of women who ever were hurt.
Waiting patiently is giving the chance to you as well as the other side. Only if you have ever waited for a certain time wont you feel regretful. You will not complain that you miss a man rashly. Only if you have ever waited will you make out what do you want at all. Wait is a measure to slow down your pace, you are sure to get deeper understanding after waiting. Only if you have ever waited wont giving up be a rash choice. Maybe you still feel painful but you will not feel lost and puzzled again.
Going away properly is giving you another way to live. Dont wait for the man who will never love you. It is certain that another man is waiting for you.
Yu Wolfing and GongLi, they have waited seriously ever. They are the women who know how to wait and how to go away. They gave them enough time and left them silently and happily. They are welcomed to a brand new and relaxing life.
Learn to wait, and learn to go away; it is the wisdom for intelligent women.
