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After you've been caught cheating you might feel like the odds that you'll be able to get your ex back are pretty near hopeless. Hopeless, is absolutely not where you want to be physically or mentally. Once you give up hope everything really does become more difficult. Keep reading all the way to the very end to learn how to hang on to hope and get your ex back in the end. Yes, even if you've cheated on your ex.
The first thing you need to know about relationships is that there really is no such thing as instant or sudden death in a relationship. Love simply doesn't operate on that kind of finite timetable. Even in the event of the actual death of a partner the love doesn't die along with the person. It takes time to come to terms with the loss, the grief, and then to prepare to move on without that person in your life as a constant companion, friend, and lover. The same thing happens when a long-term relationship, like a marriage, ends as the result of a cheating partner.
The love doesn't die the moment the deed was uncovered. This is the point when the walls begin coming up. Those walls are a first line of defense as your partner begins to harden his or her heart to you. This is the beginning of the end but by no means a point, figurative or literal, of no return. You may believe you can't get your ex back after you've cheated but that is a self-defeating line of thought that needs to change if you want success in saving your relationship.
Why does attitude matter so much?
I believe it was Henry Ford who said "whether you think you can or think you can't; you're right." Those are pretty profound words that sum up a great deal of human failures. If you spend all your time dwelling on how impossible it is you'll never work out what it takes to win your ex back. But, if you focus all your efforts and attention towards finding the one thing that is sure to get your ex back then you are destined to enjoy the sweet taste of success in this endeavor.
For the sake of your marriage and a long, happy life together, I sincerely hope that you are keeping your thoughts positive and focusing all your energy on what is possible for you in the future with the person you love most. Remember as you build your new relationship together that this important lesson should also help you focus on the positive things waiting in your future together too.
