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As many men have discovered, it's challenging for a woman to reach an enjoyable orgasm during normal sexual intercourse. This doesn't mean that women don't derive satisfaction from loving physical connection with their men, because the act of penetration and lovemaking in itself is both emotionally and spiritually fulfilling for the majority of women in a loving relationship. In practice, however, if a woman is to be completelyfulfilled during lovemaking with her partner, then to some degree the man is responsible for finding a way that enables her to reach an orgasm before or after intercourse.
Happily it's been shown, in survey after survey, the majority of women actually orgasm easily and rapidly from oral sex, and in many cases they actually prefer the intimacy of oral sex to the act of intercourse. For one thing, the fact that a man is prepared to give a woman pleasure in this extremely intimate way is a strong indication of his love for her (and for him, of course, it's incredibly arousing, which is an added bonus, especially if oral sex is part of foreplay). In short, oral sex as a means to happiness for both partners: they can arouse a woman and bring her to orgasm so that she is fully prepared for sexual intercourse with her partner, and if he's aroused by being in such intimate proximity to her clitoris and vulva, he will enjoy intercourse all the more and climax harder and more powerfully than he otherwise would.
All in all what this means, is that oral sex should be part of every couple sexual repertoire, provided they don't have any deep-seated issues of shame or embarrassment about it. It's clear that oral sex has a lot in its favour, but it isn't the easiest form of sexual encounter to enjoy unless you're in the right position. Oral sex positions need to be carefully worked out so that both partners are comfortable and the man can continue stimulating the woman, and she can continue receiving stimulation, until both are satisfied.
So what we are going to do here is to tryand give you some brief pointers to the best oral sex positions that will help youavoid aching limbs and cricks in the neck!
Perhaps the simplest oral sex position to use is to have the female partner lying on her back on the top of bed so that her legs can be bent at the knees and her feet can touch the floor. This enables her tokeep her legs apart so that her male partner hasboth a good view ofand complete access to her genitals while he kneels on the floor at the edge of the bed with his face and mouth ideally positioned to stimulate his partner. She may also keep her feet flat on the edge of the bed if it's more comfortable for her.
An alternative oral sex position which many couples find enjoyable is for the man to lie beside the woman but facing in the opposite direction so that his feet are somewhere up beyond her head. He can lie on his side, supported on one elbow,with his face positioned near her genitals, so that he can reach her vulva with both his fingers and his mouth when hegently leans over the top of her thigh. This is a relaxing and enjoyable variton of traditionaloral sex positions which allows a couple to sustain this form of love-making for a long time.
And finally,you can use, even if only as a novelty or for fun on special occasions, the famous"soxiante-neuf" or sixty-nine position, where one partner lies flat on their back, and the other kneels over them while facing in the opposite direction so that each partner's genitals are positioned somewhere near the other's head. Although this is great fun, it can be difficult to focus on bringing your partner to climax while you're receiving such intense stimulation, but it's certainly something every couple should try at least once!
