subject: Get Your Cheating Ex Back – Avoid These Costly Mistakes to Enjoy Sweet Success [print this page] Get Your Cheating Ex Back Avoid These Costly Mistakes to Enjoy Sweet Success
There's only one word that will do for you when it comes to the chance to get your cheating ex back: success. You want to be successful in your efforts to get your ex back because there is still love there and you believe your relationship really deserves a second chance.
But you can't help but wonder why it should be so hard to get your cheating ex back. What are you doing wrong or could you be doing wrong that is delaying the outcome you're so eager to have? Are you making any of these mistakes that just might derail your efforts to repair your broken romance?
1) Are you pushing too hard, too fast? There is a time for everything and now might not be the best time to push your ex into getting involved with you all over again. Your ex may have been the one who cheated but you are the one interested in working things out. This means that your best course of action may honestly be to take a step back and let yourself and your ex catch a breath to see where you each really want to go from here. This means no contacts, phone calls, chance meetings, drive bys, text messages, or emails. I know it's going to be hard but absence does often make the heart grow fonder. He needs a little time to start missing you before he realizes what he's lost.
2) Have you turned to everyone you know telling them what's going on? This is a matter that would often be best left to the two of you until you've had a chance to really work things out. No one needs to know the sordid details and you don't want to do anything that could potentially derail your efforts to reconcile or to alienate the person you love with friends and/or family members. The best thing by far in this situation is to hold things close to your chest until you've decided it really is over for good this time. Until then don't tell anyone that doesn't absolutely need to know (and in most cases that really is no one).
They may not seem like a whole lot in black and white but they can make a world of difference as you work to get your cheating ex back and salvage what is left of the relationship. It is better to avoid any mistake you can during this delicate relationship period.
