subject: Parents Required: Most General Mistakes Of Chinese Parents In Education [print this page] As the saying goes, poor parents in tough conditions may try their best to raise children. But now, I think this should be altered, because in today's material life conditions, which are not too difficult, I see more parents transfer their "love" and "money" into unclever action, to impact and suppress childrens spirit of enterprise.
Today I will use the most common and most typical, most extreme, is also the most fallible instruments learning as an example to learn about supernormal development method, and the ability of learning and how to avoid using learning to impair the child.
First of all, I must say that, I personally love the piano, violin, etc many Musical Instruments very much, and, on the other hand, because my own children used to learn music; on the other hand, because I use English to communicate with other people, made a lot of music master, and in their coaxed depth enjoyed the music world shock and beauty.
How do I say that many parents use instruments learning to torture children?
Because parents live in the city, all the day are disturbed by noisy noise, environmental disturbance, all kinds of materialism. They may still really will gradually lose has the sort of simple beauty sense and sensibility nose which the rural granny has.
Therefore as parents, our own should firstly awaken once, whether our own observable and perception awaken? We require children to learn all kinds of things, are generally the great civilization product in the world. To these already gradually ordinary great products (such as the piano, mathematics), we have in addition to general superficial like and no dislike, do we have deep awareness and feel ability?
The greatest motivation of human learning something does not come from external persecutions, but from inner profound awareness and feelings to such wonderful things.
