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When you are planning to rekindle your old romance with an ex, you should know the tricks on how to do it. They may not be interested at all but it is your goal to let them get interested with you again. You should be able to be stealthy in a way that your ex won't have the immediate idea that you want to be back with the ex.
There are people who would look for any means just to get back with their exes and who are really shocked and disappointed thinking why the relationship came to its end. After a certain break up, there is always one person who won't get over it until he or she gets his or her ex back. The other one who is ready to go through with life by moving on might notice that his or her ex-partner wasn't prepared to accept things as they are. It is always easy to say, but yes, you should enjoy things and play as if you are not really that disappointed and you are willing to give anything just to be back with the ex. Enjoy yourself by meeting with friends. You might also be friends with your ex's friends, let them think that you are not that affected. That act of yours will most probably reach your ex and that will kind of make them think why you seem to be unaffected.
When you've finally seen each other along the way, do not spill yet what you have been feeling about the break up and that you are so desperately wanting to get back with ex. Make him or her perceive you to have moved on and that you are happy with your life even without her or him in the picture. It will provide them the reason to think it over and might even get them jealous about how you have moved on so fast. Make them feel that because of the break up, you have learned so much and it has taught you in some ways on how to become self-regulating and can stand on your own. These traits would mostly make your ex swoon back over.
Take it slow in taking her or him back. Things need no rushing up. Even though how you become sleepless because every minute of your day, you think about your ex and how to get him back, you shouldn't be pretty obvious about it. You can leave some time for yourself to think about it thoroughly and after two to three weeks, you can message him or her asking like a long, lost friend. You shouldn't show that you are too excited about it, do it like a pro as if you were an old friend and asking for an update.
If the two of you are already facing each other and ready to talk to each other, let your ex be the one who will do the talking. Make him or her feel that you are ready to listen and accept what you did wrong. You might not be aware of it but they would really appreciate it if their voice can be heard in a relationship and that you are ready to hear it, this might be another reason to renew the relationship. You are dying to get him or her back immediately but you should give time and listen to what they should say so that they will realize that they really need you back because you are always ready to listen to them.
When you're done reconnecting with them, and have already begun a renewed kind of relationship because you are already friends with each other, they might realize that the relationship should have a rebirth then. With that, as you are aiming for the goal of making them come back, it might be the other way around already. And then, what's really amazing about it, they may end up making the first move to just get back with the relationship. Remember that the very amazing mode of getting back with an ex-flame is to make them want you back more and more.
