subject: How to pick up girls? Here are some useful tips [print this page] Have you ever approached a woman feeling so confident that you will get her number only to fall flat on your face when she starts dishing out lines upon lines that describe her conditions for dating a guy? It happens to every single guy in the dating world. Girls will always think of ways to make you do things for them, for them to assume control of the situation. If youre not careful, you will end up buying drinks and holding their bags without thinking of your own self-esteem and worth. The sad part is this: you will not even get a guarantee for a date in the future.
Here are three tips you can use to deal with womens tests:
1. Poker Face. When she asks if youre a player, just ignore the question. Dont get defensive and dont react, because a defiant reaction is exactly what she wants out of you. Do not deny or admit anything, particularly if theres another girl nearby. If she persists, just tell her youre not going to give that question credence by answering it.
2. Disapproval. Youre allowed to get miffed when a woman is set on blowing you off, but you cannot get into a verbal battle with her. Just smile and say you dont like the way the conversation is going, and then leave.
3. Dont let her get under your skin. She may have been goading you to get under your skin, and the power play is just a bid for attention. If she apologizes and seeks you out, she may just end up going home with you after all.
Some more tips to pick up girls who test you:
Stand your ground and dont lose your cool with women who try their best to maneuver a bristling cock block. Usually, its a womans way of covering her insecurities. Have the confidence to stand up for yourself, and dont be scared of walking off. Strength of character is what women really want, and you might as well give it to them.
