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These days it is more important than ever that you be well rounded in all aspects of seduction and communication if you ever hope to be successful with women. And if you are hoping to get close to the really attractive women it is even more important that you be able to master all forms of communication and be able to knock a woman's socks off no matter what the situation.
The days of relying upon your good looks alone or your witty conversational skills just won't cut it. Really hot women have guys waiting in line for a chance at the title and there is a very good possibility that if you are making time with a really attractive woman she will have numerous guys calling her and texting her even while you are with her! This is why you need to be good at keeping her attention and never disappoint her.
Texting This can be a real challenge for many guys. Most guys just don't get it and think that it is just a ridiculous way to communicate. But to a really hot girl you should know how to flirt with her through text messages. You will need to be able to engage her and give her the attention and witty banter using text messages throughout the day to let her know that you are thinking of her and to make her feel important.
For many really hot women texting is just as important as any other form of communication and is a skill that you really need to learn if you ever hope to have any success with women these days. If you don't there is always another guy that is good at getting her attention through text messages who will.
Phone Calls Talking on the phone is equally as important as being able to talk in person. Being able to hold an interesting conversation that goes beyond asking her what she's doing or trying to make plans with her should be paramount in your list of skills if you ever want her to stick around for any length of time. Being at a loss for words or that long awkward silence is a relationship killer and that silence is actually the sound of any hope that you ever had with her going right out the window.
Do you want a tip? Ask her questions. Ask her questions about anything interesting that you can think of while still trying to be original. Flirt with her and poke fun at her when it is appropriate. Try to bring the same game that you might have with her in person to the table when you talk to her on the phone. If you fail in this arena you are doomed... so write down a few good questions for when that awkward silence rears it's ugly head.
Social Networking Update any social networking pages that you might have to make sure that they are appropriate and also interesting. One of the first thing that she will do if she is truly interested in you is to check you out on some of these sites to judge you. She will probably do this with all her girl friends so she can get their input.... so don't be lame.
Have some interesting pictures and if there is any evidence that you are a player you might want to think about removing that stuff. Yes, it's alright to have female friends but if it looks like you bounce from one girl to the next this is going to send a bad message.
Dating in this day and age is continually changing and you will benefit by keeping up on the many dating nuances and rituals both spoken and unspoken that have become a part of our culture. Ignoring things like texting and social networking sites may leaving you wondering what happened, while the guys who know how to leverage these forms of communication are the ones that definitely find more success with hot women.
