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"I want to get my relationship back," is a phrase said by countless people each and every day. When you and your lover go through a break up you're going to be left feeling one of two things. Either relief will wash over you because you'll feel free of the conflict and anxiety that permeated the relationship or you'll feel lost and sad. Coming to the realization that you still love your ex isn't easy. It means having to admit that you made a mistake and starting on the long and often challenging journey of trying to get them back. There are ways to make things easier for you. With a few simple tips you can pull your ex back in a way that is effective and stress free.
Whenever a person is saying, "I want to get my relationship back," it's coming from a place inside of them that's overrun with emotion. For good reason you probably feel an overwhelming sense of panic and doom. You wake up each day imagining that your ex will meet someone new and fall madly in love with them leaving you in their past for good. In reality, your ex is probably just as angst ridden about the break up as you are and they aren't even considering the idea of beginning a new relationship.
You need to have a frank talk with your ex on a day when you're not on the brink of tears. This discussion is crucial to the future of your relationship so ensure that you feel calm and centered. The main points you want to stress during this talk are that you're sorry for the pain you've caused your ex and that you've learned a lot from your time with them. Saying these things will ensure that your ex sees you as someone who is mature and capable of handling themselves in an emotional situation. You shouldn't go on about how badly you want them back. Save that for another time. This conversation is all about establishing yourself as someone who can learn and grow in the eyes of your ex.
You also need to take a step back from the situation after having this discussion. Time is essential when it comes to rebuilding a broken relationship. You both need time to allow your emotions to settle and to get your thoughts in order. There's also another benefit to pulling back from your ex for a week or two. You'll give them a chance to see how empty their life is without you. When you're not throwing yourself at their feet anymore, they'll begin to wonder whether a life that doesn't include you is truly what they want or need.
