subject: Get Your Girlfriend Back - How To Make Her Want To Come Back To You [print this page] One of the hardest things to understand as a man going through a breakup, is that you cannot FORCE a woman to stay with you. If you try to plead with her and beg her to stay, you might as well kiss her GOODBYE. See, the more that you push a woman like this, the more she is going to PULL away from you. This is how women and men interact with each other. A man that tries to force his girlfriend or persuade her to come back is going to end up disappointed when she does NOT return.
So, what should you be doing instead to get her back? Well, to put it simply, you have to make her WANT to come back to YOU.
Here are a few tips to help you do this:
1. Get over her. I know this sounds like the last thing that you should do, but when you are over a breakup, then you will NOT make the mistakes that are going to push her away. You won't be desperate for her to come back. Remember that women are pretty much repelled by desperation. You want to be okay with the breakup.
2. Have your OWN life. Go out with your friends. Work on your career. Focus on fitness for a while. Whatever you do, don't allow yourself to get stuck in a rut where your whole life starts to crumble. A lot of men will make this mistake and they lose any attraction with their ex girlfriend. And they lose more than that.
Being able to attract her back is NOT as hard as you may think it is. There are many more ways that you can get her back. One more such way is to learn and understand how a woman responds to a man and use that to YOUR advantage to attract her back to YOU.
