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If you go out and meet girls but somehow fail to connect, this is a sign that you're doing something wrong. It's probably just that you don't understand how attraction works. Rather than sulking while thinking "how do I get a girl to like me", read these following tips to get the girls to truly like you.
Note: you first impression is also have serious effect to the entire progress of attraction, see how to pick up a girl for the proper way to approach her. Also, you might search her all at the completely wrong place, look at how to find a girlfriend for some ideas on how to look a girl that best suits you.
Stay Aloof
One of the greatest blunders men make is to push too hard. This causes you to look desperate and clingy. The image you want to project is that you're cool and independent. You can get it or leave it. Remind her that you like her, but also show her that you're not worried about whether she wants you or not (although you are!).
Try to Remember Things About Her
She will go crazy when you recall several details about her life that she told you 2 or 3 weeks ago. Or when you remember details from the night you met. Anytime she talks, regardless of what the subject is, listen closely and keep it in mind. Please don't recite back everything she's ever told you, but let it show up a little at a time. And don't ever forget anything she's told you or you will go down in flames hard.
Surprise Her
Unpredictability is attractive. Yes, women like men who are steady and consistent, but they LOVE guys that can give them surprises from time to time. Make sure she stays addicted to you since she can never predict what will you do next! Never tell her everything about you in one go. Rather, spill a bit of information every once in a while. This will say to her, "There's a lot more in me than you imagine. Wouldn't you love to find it all out?"
Be Generous
Do pleasant things for her without expecting something back. You never want to look like you are stingy. Be nice and do things for her, but you should never appear weak. Nearly all women don't like men who behave like slaves, and the ones who do need to be avoided at all costs. Keep strong and independent, but pay for her to show her that money is not an issue.
Be Her Friend
Show her that you are her friend as well as a romantic interest. This is much more important to females than it is to guys. The best way to achieve this is to simply pay attention to what she says and display interest in her daily life. Behave like a friend to her, but continue to keep up some level of flirty tone and playfulness. If you don't do this, you are going to fall into the fatal trap of being just a friend. She'll say, "I like him, but I don't like him that way."
Give Her Some Time
Women's emotions work slower than guys'. She will need space and time to think things over before she will decide she likes you. The key is to let her have her space, but also stay in touch with her to enable you to keep putting the groundwork for a romantic relationship.
Every woman's different, so there are no easy steps to getting one to like you. However, the tips above can guide you to the right direction when you try to make her attracted to you. No matter what, keep your head up and stay confident. This will help you succeed and it'll also impress her.